I have Done My Part BUT All because of the 'Bad-Mouthed'....

I always tell myself:
"To Forgive & Forget and Live with No Regrets"

After so long, I went up to pay gma a visit, knowing they are heading to China for
'Ching-Ming' soon. And so coincident, my 2nd aunt was not there. Perhaps if she was told I went up then, she may start to think that i meant to avoid her - Whatever la.

Anyway, i was greeted by the most unpleasant greeting.
First, critisizing on my 'chee-hairstyle'.
Hey old lady, I never ask for your comment on my hair-do and i think there isn't such style-name in the market as yet.

Next she started to talk about what i have not said, but started by the 'STARTER' - see what i mean - Don't ever think you can let the matter rest even after not talking about it for months - it will still haunt you because some people just can't let matter rests - so why bother to clear the air. THE more you clear it, the dustier it becomes.

There is not even a word of concern - about my health, my baby, etc.

The next thing that comes - is about my resignation.
And she simply have to add some vinegar in it by saying:
U have stopped work HAR, now your hubby can earn LOR, can feed you LOR.
- So what was that supposed to mean?
Only your sons can earn alot to provide for their wives? Others can't??

Hey, we are employee of the company, not slaves and don't think we are treated the BEST there anyway.

So much for doing my part as a grand-daughter and so much for my visit.

Thanks to the Starter and thanks to the 'bad-mouthed'.

At least i have learnt that everyone cares only for their own flesh and blood.
Let's face it, and accept this fact.
Let's not argue anymore as until the very end, only our flesh and blood matters mosts.

This is the world they choose to live in, and i respect their wishes.

At least I know, I gain more and am 'richer' - spiritually.