Before And After ~ Marriage

Marriage ~ Some say "It is wonderful", Some say "It is Hell".

I say "If you see it as wonderful, you will have nothing but happiness"
"If you see it as hell, you will have nothing but UNhappiness"

In this universe, we have mankind; MAN & WOMAN.
Man & woman exist as we are meant to be paired, to reproduce & to learn to live with one another.
When two hands clap, their effort together in turns produces a sound.
People clap when they are happy and people applaud to mark an achievement.

When a couple marches in before the start of a wedding ceremony,
We often hear congratulation-applauses from all invited guests.
Would you have heard the guests saying: This is HELL or This is WONDERFUL?

Marriage makes no difference to a relationship.
It is the mind that makes the difference.

Before & After

1. The husband/wife is a man/woman. Their sexes remains unchanged.
2. The husband/wife is handsome/pretty. Their appearances remains unchanged.
3. They love each other madly. Their love continues to mature.
4. He/She dislikes like cream. Likes/Dislikes remains unchanged.
   
5. He/She is friendly/reserve. Personality do not change overnight.
6. He/She is strong/weak. Characters are hard to change.

What difference does it really makes before or after marriage?
My reply is: IT DOESN'T.

Nothing changes unless you make it seem that way.
In fact, marriage builds trust, confidence and it definitely mature both HIM & HER.

Which Path Is Your Preference?

(A) A happy + positive mind = A long-lasting wonderful marriage

OR

(B) Discontentment + Unhappiness = The Beginning of Hell