People say: "What You think of During the Day, tend to appear in One's Dream"; But some things just aren't so.
Since mom passed away, I have 'seen' her;
During the most significant days -
1st - on the 7th-day
2nd - on the 28th-day
3rd - on the 35th-day
4th - on the 49th-day
5th - on the 100th-day;
6th - on the 1-year anniversary; all these between 3:30am ~ 4:00am &
the rest of the days, when I have a problem unsolved & she appeared to give me the light.
During the 1st ~ 4th 'visits', she hugged me, held my hands tight, not wanting to let go and of course crying; especially on the 49th-day.
Gradually, the 'visits' lessen and i see smiles on her face; she just wanted a glimpse of me and to hold my hands in hers, to make sure everything is fine with me.
This is The Greatest Love of a Mother - Never Ending LOVE.
God Bless ALL Mothers!